Sex And Relationships | Romance Is Everything. Rediscover The Joy Of Playtime https://intimatetickles.com Tue, 24 Mar 2026 14:40:58 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://intimatetickles.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/cropped-nn-headshot-in-square-32x32.png Sex And Relationships | Romance Is Everything. Rediscover The Joy Of Playtime https://intimatetickles.com 32 32 The Cellular Benefits of Healthy Relationships https://intimatetickles.com/the-cellular-benefits-of-healthy-relationships Tue, 24 Mar 2026 14:40:58 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/the-cellular-benefits-of-healthy-relationships I recently had the pleasure of attending a workshop at my local gym/wellness center by Dr. Molly Maloof ; a physician, author, and longevity expert specializing in personalized medicine, healthspan optimization, and the science of human connection. She spoke about the social drivers of cellular damage as well as how healthy relationships actually heal the body. We cannot underestimate the…

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]]> Why Your Family of Origin Still Controls Your Emotions (and What to Do About It) https://intimatetickles.com/why-your-family-of-origin-still-controls-your-emotions-and-what-to-do-about-it Fri, 27 Feb 2026 10:24:43 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/why-your-family-of-origin-still-controls-your-emotions-and-what-to-do-about-it It’s a common assumption that once we move out, build a career, or start our own families, we have finally “grown up” and left the past behind. Yet, for many, an unexpected comment from a partner or a specific tone of voice from a friend or co-worker can instantly transport them back to the feeling of being a vulnerable child. The family of origin impact is like an invisible “emotional GPS” that…

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]]> Navigating Divorce When Your Ex Chooses to Soil the Nest https://intimatetickles.com/navigating-divorce-when-your-ex-chooses-to-soil-the-nest Fri, 31 Oct 2025 14:25:23 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/navigating-divorce-when-your-ex-chooses-to-soil-the-nest Despite the decline in divorce rates, emotional disconnect, lack of emotional safety , and unresolved conflict (including chronic bickering) remain leading contributors to relationship breakdowns. What remains consistent is the impact. Couples always have a choice in how they navigate the deconstruction of their unions, a layered onion involving complex emotions…

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]]> What to Do If We Bicker Too Much https://intimatetickles.com/what-to-do-if-we-bicker-too-much Thu, 25 Sep 2025 08:05:13 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/what-to-do-if-we-bicker-too-much It’s normal for couples to have disagreements, but when small arguments become constant, they can drain intimacy and joy. Many people wonder, what do do if we bicker too much—especially when it seems like every little issue sparks conflict. As much as light bantering coming from a playful place can be a relationship strength, tipping over into this other place can be a problem.

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]]> Why AI is Not a Replacement for Therapy https://intimatetickles.com/why-ai-is-not-a-replacement-for-therapy Thu, 17 Jul 2025 07:47:04 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/why-ai-is-not-a-replacement-for-therapy As a practicing individual and couples therapist, I am observing along with the world, the way AI is rapidly changing how we live, work, and even support our mental health. With accessible chatbots, it’s never been easier to ask questions or get feedback on anything within seconds. But when it comes to deep emotional healing, there’s an important question we need to ask ourselves: While AI can…

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]]> Ask Lisa : My boyfriend and his female co-worker text each other constantly https://intimatetickles.com/ask-lisa-my-boyfriend-and-his-female-co-worker-text-each-other-constantly Wed, 16 Jul 2025 07:36:43 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/ask-lisa-my-boyfriend-and-his-female-co-worker-text-each-other-constantly Trust is a pillar of any healthy relationship. When broken, it can lead to insecurity and hurt. Healthy boundaries, open communication and maintaining emotional safety are all also important, particularly avoiding behaviors that create insecurity. A woman asks Lisa about whether it’s appropriate for her to be uncomfortable with the frequency of texting between her boyfriend and a female co-worker.

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]]> Deconstructing Bickering in Relationships https://intimatetickles.com/deconstructing-bickering-in-relationships Wed, 09 Jul 2025 06:21:27 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/deconstructing-bickering-in-relationships Richard Nicastro, PhD examines why couples fight and proposes that bickering isn’t always the way it seems. Though bickering can clearly be problematic, he proposes the possibility that sometimes it might be fun. “You missed the exit.” “Did not.” “Did too.” “Do you want to drive?” “That’s not fair. You know I don’t have my prescription glasses with me.” “Like you would’ve done any…

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]]> Ask Lisa: Uncomfortable with my boyfriend’s relationship with his female friend https://intimatetickles.com/ask-lisa-uncomfortable-with-my-boyfriends-relationship-with-his-female-friend Wed, 09 Jul 2025 06:21:26 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/ask-lisa-uncomfortable-with-my-boyfriends-relationship-with-his-female-friend Trust, once broken, can feel really challenging to mend. However, with consistent effort, vulnerability, and a genuine commitment to change, it can be rebuilt. A woman asks Lisa how to regain trust in her relationship. Lisa’s response to her offers steps to do this, emphasizing open communication, consistent actions, and the creation of emotional safety for healing to occur.

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]]> Ask Lisa : Lack of Emotional Safety in My Relationship https://intimatetickles.com/ask-lisa-lack-of-emotional-safety-in-my-relationship Tue, 24 Jun 2025 03:44:11 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/ask-lisa-lack-of-emotional-safety-in-my-relationship

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]]> The Under-the-Radar Relationship Killer https://intimatetickles.com/the-under-the-radar-relationship-killer Mon, 23 Jun 2025 03:35:00 +0000 https://intimatetickles.com/the-under-the-radar-relationship-killer Sometimes the biggest relationship problems are not the loudest. Be most concerned about the issues that go unspoken, especially if conflict avoidance is normal for both partners. Relationship researchers are integral to raising awareness about the harmful behaviors that couples can do to each other, either intentionally or more often, not realizing the damage done. For example…

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